1. Don’t Be Loud in Public Spaces

Japan is generally a pretty quiet place, especially on public transport. I remember my first ride on a Japanese train—I was amazed at how silent it was! Everyone was respectful of each other’s space, which meant no loud conversations or phone calls. It’s a good idea to keep your voice down and just enjoy the tranquility.

2. Avoid Wearing Shoes Indoors

Even though I’m used to taking off my shoes at home as an Asian, it was interesting to see how universally this is practiced in Japan. Some traditional restaurants and certain parts of temples you may need to take your shoes off before entering. There’s usually a designated area with a shoe rack where you can slip on the provided indoor slippers.

3. Don’t Tip

Tipping is not a thing in Japan, and it can actually be seen as rude. Instead of tipping, just show your appreciation with a smile and a “thank you” for their excellent service.

4. Avoid Talking on the Phone in Public Transport

Using your phone for talking while on trains or buses is a big no-no in Japan. People value peace and quiet in public spaces, so it’s best to text instead or wait until you’re off the train to make a call. I quickly got used to this and actually found it quite nice to enjoy a quieter commute.

5. Don’t Stick Chopsticks Upright in Rice

Sticking chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice is considered impolite in Japan because it resembles a traditional funeral ritual. It’s best to avoid this gesture during meals. Instead, rest your chopsticks on a chopstick holder or across the bowl when not in use.

6. Avoid Public Displays of Affection

Holding hands is generally okay, but anything beyond that might make people around you uncomfortable. It’s best to keep things low-key in public.

7. Don’t Point with Your Finger

Pointing at things with your finger can come across as impolite. I found it useful to gesture with my whole hand instead. It felt a bit awkward at first, but it’s an easy adjustment that shows respect for the culture.

8. Avoid Eating While Walking

Eating while walking is usually frowned upon in Japan, though you might see it at festivals or near food stalls. Finding a spot to sit and enjoy your food is a better bet.

9. Don’t Forget to Bow

Bowing is a key part of Japanese greetings. At first, I was unsure how deep or long my bows should be, but people were pretty understanding. A slight bow is fine for most casual interactions. It’s a simple gesture that goes a long way in showing respect.

10. Avoid Discussing Sensitive Topics

When chatting with locals, it’s best to steer clear of sensitive topics like politics or historical conflicts. I found that discussing food, travel, or hobbies made for more enjoyable conversations and helped me connect better with the people I met.